
Between the roasted turkey, the family catching up, and the festive holiday energy, Thanksgiving is a time for celebration but if you are currently breastfeeding, raising a glass of wine for the annual family toast can bring up a lot of questions.
Can I have a glass of Pinot Noir with dinner? Do I need to "pump and dump" afterward? Will it make my baby sleepy?
Let’s look at the actual science behind alcohol and breast milk so you can confidently make the best choice for you and your baby this holiday season.
The Golden Rule: Timing is Everything
The short answer from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) is that moderate alcohol consumption (one standard drink per day) is not known to be harmful to your nursing infant.
However, how you time that drink makes a massive difference:
What Safely Counts as "One Drink"?
Not all drinks are poured equally, especially when a generous relative is filling your glass at the dinner table. When tracking your 2-hour window, a standard drink equals:
If you have a heavy pour or a second glass, you will need to extend that waiting window accordingly (e.g., waiting 4 hours for two drinks).
Busting the "Pump and Dump" Myth
We have all heard the old advice to express breast milk after drinking alcohol and throw it down the drain. You do not need to do this.
Alcohol does not get trapped in your breast milk. As your blood alcohol level drops, the alcohol level in your milk drops right along with it. Pumping and dumping does not speed up this process; only time can clear alcohol from your body.
What About Thanksgiving Food Cooked with Alcohol?
If you are eyeing a bourbon-glazed ham, beer-braised sides, or a classic rum cake, you don’t need to stress. While cooking doesn't magically evaporate 100% of the alcohol, the remaining amount left in a single culinary portion is far too microscopic to have any impact on your breast milk. Go ahead and enjoy the stuffing and gravy!
A Quick Checklist for a Stress-Free Holiday
The Bottom Line
An occasional glass of wine to toast with your family is perfectly safe, provided you plan around your baby's feeding schedule. Cheers to a happy, healthy, and relaxing Thanksgiving!